Community Offerings from Myself Phoenyxedtruth by Enigmedefi YouTube

 8:20 a.m. Sunday May 7, 2023

   

     What I can offer school systems is quite a bit in reality:

     D.A.R.E. to D.R.E.A.M. program: (have to get the old book from the 1980’s and 90’s) but a pre-recovery and or a recovery program for elementary school on up, using the best from the past and incorporating the present by designing a program that is relevant, up to date and healthy for all. I want to combine this with community input about their goals, hopes and dreams for the present and the future for the Dream part. Also pick colors that have significant meaning for that community and or school district and State. 

     This will include the basics of boundaries, education about drugs and alcohol the effects, why it is sought out/substitutes as well as addiction can be to anything or anybody, warning signs, documentation of self behavior/words/body language/input from friends or family or pals or professionals, W.R.A P. (Plan) for anything fill in the blanks, resource sharing, the basics of how A.A. got started the best model still out there for the foundation of any type of recovery, youth recovery included, identifying people who have recovery versus just abstinence in anything, where full blown addictions lead HONESTLY no sugar coating it (all age appropriate and Board of Education and Parent plus Community approved) maybe an hour a week (maybe an hour follow up with your teacher or less to create the skit or class assignment to convey comprehension of ideas concepts and education) for a few months with some chosen assignments, skit work, and activities. This also includes a law enforcement component with them coming in identitfying themselves and describing their job including how D.A.R.E. came to be, why this program is, and their goals with it, along with Q and A, fire department and Paramedics will also speak as to how they have been addressing challenges with addiction. 

     They can talk about how they work together and help educate on what to do, who to call, when to call and help the whole thing be less scary, confusing or ___________.This in the beginning would be 1× per school elementary schools, then middle school and highschool along with prep for college including guest speakers that were or are local. There’s no limit to the endless potential and possibilities that everybody is capable of if we work together and help address challenges or prevent them from happening in the future.

D.B.T. and Coping skills for all,all language age appropriate with activities and skits plus assignments

Recovery Bully Recovery program:

     This program works with those either self identified as Bullies or having characteristics of, those who are being bullied which includes coercion and more even out in the community or from peers or ___________, and the survivors of bullying. Education will include those from local areas that are no longer alive or can be found as education can help prevent or address a bullies anger. The truth and nothing but the truth about the effects of bullying even Silent Abusers.

     Identifying WHY someone does what they due through thoughtful questions that stimulate self epiphany is the most effective method in helping people that I have ever developed. No revelations are as powerful as those that we discover ourselves, maybe one of the reasons why A.A. says not to call another person or tell anybody that they are an ___________ (alcoholic or addict or they need recovery etc.). A person needs to self identify of nothing is accepted into our stubborn thick heads. You do not keep putting survivors and bullies together hoping that they will just work it out, you also don’t force those surviving to be the reporters, somebody else should be the “bad guy” including other students, faculty, community, visitors, subs etc. Getting called out SUCKS but can increase a person’s victimization even far beyond school grounds where they might be somewhat protected. This program works at building healthy boundaries, self esteem, self reporting, accountability partners mentorship, groups etcetera. Stopping it now can save lives on both sides Nobody grows up going , That’s I want to be when I grow up a Bully! 

     Movies, written assignments, talking, healthy activities, healthy communication etc will be a part of it ALL approved of.

During this people need to realize that there are things that are going to one out that WE may not be comfortable with, there might need to be child protection involvement on both sides, investigations, uncomfortable questions, juvenile authorities even just speakers, reformed bullies and survivors, consequences of ____________, temporarily removing somebody is not working and can create more animosity plus really I get to get out of school for this Yeah 👍. Bullies are often being victimized themselves if you haven’t seen the breakfast club the movie in a long time maybe watch it with an eye for this. Saturday Detention hmmm Maybe there’s a lesson there.

     There’s also a need for groups for Survivors so that they can defend themselves effectively and be confident enough to stand up and not take it in a way that de-escalates or diffuses the situation and does not enflame it, cause them to be sought out in cyber world or in the community and causes the bully to think. Even just standing expressionless not phased is a defense, not saying anything back Talk to my Wall! They want a reaction don’t give it to them , you get nothing from me. Do you really Care what they think are they your bestie, cause if they are it’s time to move the hell on. Why would you care what a bully says or does, you know the truth they don’t know you and it’s a huge sign of their lives being out of control that they seek to control somebody else.

     My saying for years now There’s a Reason it is not an excuse. Research their social media, their homelife, their activities and supposed friends or family. You will find beneath the surface of a Tough looking exterior somebody insecure, possibly being abused or who has suffered abuse in the past, somebody negated, not listened to, name called , hurt, and lashing out at you and the world like a cry for attention and help SEE ME I am important too. If not stopped bullies of all kinds can become Domestic Abusers, Assaultive physically, addicts, criminals or cops who abuse their power including Department of Corrections. Thieves as well as it’s an underhanded way of lashing out and causes problems that they may not get in trouble for, stalkers, murderers, Terrorists and a lot else. Save them, save the survivors, save your communities and yourselves in the process.

     Life Living Skills for all ages but especially in Highschool for when they leave home, WHY would we ever discontinue Home EC unless you want them permanently dependent upon parents or others.

Stranger Danger Programs

(Scared Straight) The Criminals Truth Will Set you Free

Cyber safety course for All 

     Gender Health Class including STI/HIV education Blatantly Honest, with the Baby component, plus GLBT education by Actual GLBT. Education including my gender scales including the Enigmedefi Scales based on Experienced Gender and the Kinsey Scale plus my Experience Scale the Phoenyxedtruth Scale. Knowing more about our gender and sexuality born that way and experienced that way is not only healthy but can foster community action regarding bathrooms, appropriate sportsmanship conduct at games, addressing bullying tactics, what gender or sexuality is or is not, rights to our bodies even for children (including fertility), teaching Yes and No and boundaries, identifying predators even in preschool and elementary can prevent a lifetime of dealing with trauma including detection of signs or symptoms of different types of abuse including sexual abuse (whatever is approved, remember what they see on TV and in Movies, questions are more dangerous and give predators a lead plus they can fill in however they want to), identifying targeting strategies, and _________(fill in more). 

     Let’s put a stop to HATE, confusion, discrimination, misunderstandings , preconceived notions, stereotypes, gender “confusion” which is not confusion, dangerous people or situations, and instead foster a community that is healthy, educated, preventitive, and protective including healthy groups or counseling for all.

Parenting groups and youth and children groups during the parenting groups for ALL.

Recovery for everybody from everything

Art/Artisan (formerly called “crafts”) groups and writing groups

Warm hand offs with actualized relationships with community professionals and partners

After school activities for ALL

Nutritious is Delicious

Getting youth diversion and mentorship programs, maybe work programs or volunteering even once a month.

Night School and or ALC's

     Relevant Education that helps the Environment and ourselves added. The world is changing big time and if we don’t adjust we are going to run out of time to keep everyone fed etc. Our is Earth currently on life support and is dying from our inattention and pollution.

Recycle, reduce, reuse, Up cycle, reform, reclaim and found.

Boundaries and DBT class for coping skills and healthy boundaries for life including school, community, family and world.

I can offer a lot to anybody anywhere including Trauma Informed Care for faculty and staff plus kids!